The Directed Lists
Why are some people highly successful while others are only mildly successful and others are not successful at all? Researchers sought to find this out in a study done in 1953 and its follow up twenty years later.
The Yale University graduating class of '53 was polled to discover what habits, attitudes or practices might contribute to long term success. Twenty years later, correlations were made between success and the attributes of the subjects.
Of course success may be measured in many ways: money, happiness, good family relationships, health, working in a career that you love and more.
Amazingly, not wealth, intelligence, grades, enthusiasm, attitude or anything else seemed to determine whether one was destined to perform in life in the upper 3%.
This elite top tier was distinguished only by the following three characteristics:
they had specific goals
they wrote them down
they looked at their lists from time to time
In the category of monetary success alone-- sheer monetary wealth---the top three percent had more than the other 97% combined.
The following are what I call The Directed Lists and they correspond to various parts of a person's life. Place each title on the top of a page and number the lines below. Without judging, make a list of the things you want to realize in your life. Look at the list from time to time and notice what happens:
1. Things I intend to achieve in my lifetime
2. Things I've been putting off
3. People I need to speak with and what I would say to them
4. Sacrifices I am willing to make to achieve my goals
5. Aspects of the kind of person I hope to become
6.Things I can forgive myself for
7. Things I can forgive others for
8.Insights and intuitions I am having about my life